Day 13: What do you think the hardest thing about distance is?
The answer to this is pretty obvious, being apart.
I miss so many things when we’re not together. Things that no distance couples take for granted. Of course the physical things. Holding hands, laying together in bed, feeling him play with my hair. Of course I don’t need to mention sex. You miss having the one you love around in your daily life. I’m always the girl without her boyfriend at parties and dinners. I feel great anxiety when we’re apart as well. Just the thought that he’s so far away and God forbid if anything should ever happen, how would we get to each other. I really, really hate the distance. I can’t wait till this part of our lives is behind us.
That being said, when we are together, things are that much more beautiful because of this distance.
10:46 pm • 23 May 2011 • 3 notes
I respect this guy so much. He’s such a great person, and I’ve never even met him.
1:11 am • 20 May 2011 • 24 notes
Day 12: How would you define love?
There were times before Callum when I thought I had been in love. And perhaps I was, I think love is a spectrum of different levels and types of feeling. What I have with Callum though is something that I never thought even existed. I thought it was just something in movies and books. I thought that people just settled. I was so wrong.
I can’t really put into words the way that it feels to be in love now. My heart feels incredibly full yet light and everything I experience, I perceive with fresher and brighter eyes. I feel wanted, safe, secure, and incredibly special. Callum is the first thing I think of when I wake and the last thing I think of before sleep. I worry about him all the time. That he is safe and happy. True love comes with responsibility. Love has given me incredible faith. Callum was very agnostic when we first met. He confessed to me then that meeting me, and experiencing the love between us, is the most concrete proof he’s found that there is a greater purpose and meaning to existence. I think love is everything.
1:10 am • 20 May 2011 • 4 notes
fioners asked: Hi!
I just wanted to share a song with you and your followers. It's been a favourite of mine for a really long time. Its called Tied by miles By Goodbye Tomorrow (link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N-VNSmyvFIs) Its beautiful but heartbreaking and describes long distance love perfectly. Hope you like it :)
That was so sweet of you, thank you! Followers, check it out. :)
12:46 am • 19 May 2011
smilewithally-deactivated201203 asked: I LOVE your blog. Im so glad there is a blog where people who have expeirenced long distance relationships can really relate to it. I know I definitely can. <3
Thank you so much! I really have found the large number of people on tumblr in similar relationships to be so helpful. Let me know if you ever want to talk or rant about it someone! :)
1:23 am • 16 May 2011 • 1 note